Relational alienation

How come one feels out of place in your own culture? I struggle with the Music I struggle with the cultural confines and the overall mind set. I listen to French music, find eastern music alluring and struggle with my own sounds. I love my language, I love the ability to express myself so clearly […]

Meaning for Life and relationships.

Victor Frankl one of my favorite psychologists defines  our need for meaning as the driving force for our existence. He calls it the will to meaning. So according to him we create meaning in three ways. “We can discover this meaning in life in three different ways: (1) by creating a work or doing a […]

The Mind Is Afraid Of This Aloneness

The search for a partner, communion, intimacy the idea to lose yourself in the other is one of the reasons we as humans go into relationships.  We search for that in the other, we lambaste them for not being close enough not sharing enough. In a resent article they differentiate in your language whether you […]