Relational alienation

How come one feels out of place in your own culture? I struggle with the Music I struggle with the cultural confines and the overall mind set. I listen to French music, find eastern music alluring and struggle with my own sounds. I love my language, I love the ability to express myself so clearly […]

Old Love

The delusion of how and what love should look like is mostly propagated by the young. We hear of love that has been lost and a yearning to love like a child. Be overtaken by love.Fall blindly into love. Recent research suggest that intelligent people is not necessarily good at relationships because of the inquisitive […]

The Paradox of silence.

“Buddha’s doctrine: man suffers because of his craving to possess and keep forever things which are impermanent. Chief among these things is his own person, for this is his means of isolating himself from the rest of life, his castle into which he can retreat and from which he can assert himself against external forces. […]

Gender and Conflict

Is there is difference how men and how woman deal with conflict. I find in the mediations that I do with couples there is a distinct difference how they approach the mediation as well as conduct them in the mediations. Women tend to be more comfortable in sharing their frustrations and fears than men seem […]

W.O.W. ——– Way Of Water

Having had a N.D.E.  (Near Death Experience) in the late 90’s made me realize life in itself are made up of and consists mainly of relationships. We are as individuals always engaged in some kind of relationship. As the popular culture a while ago has demonstrated “emotional intelligence” consists to a large extent of relational […]