Loss

In the blandness that is the digital, non-sexist, non-bigoted, non-discriminatory etc world, we have lost individuality. Everybody is a group. I miss the raconteurs of my youth, the storytellers the colourfull individuals the Harlequins that could joke truth to power. We now have angry every-bodies, that all they can do is talk about the injustices […]

And she said

Being in a relationship as a divorced person has a whole range of complications. There are children. Parental styles. Routines. Ex husbands and ex wives. Work. Religion and availability. How does one get a new parner into your life. How do you tell children they are not the centre of ur universe anymore. All of […]

Sibling society

A few years ago I read Sibling Society, a book by Robert Bly, poet and story teller from America.  The main theme of the book was how to reclaim the forgotten art of adulthood, if we can call it an art or a necessesary life cycle. He refers to the people caught up in a […]

And we care.

  “to have faith is precisely to lose one’s mind so as to win God.” -Søren Kierkegaard   With the dissolvent of our social structures and the rise of the individual as a focus for development, it is noticeable that we have become more entitled and less compassionate. In the past few weeks, I have had discussions […]

Resilience

Resilience Def. Resilience is the process of adapting well in the face of adversity, trauma, tragedy, threats, or even … It means “bouncing back” from difficult experiences. I have been quiet for some time, and one of the things that I have been pondering in that time is, what makes us get over things? What […]