The falacy of equality.

We are more than our social constructs, and we are also more than our biology but negate any one of the two at your own peril

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Loss

In the blandness that is the digital, non-sexist, non-bigoted, non-discriminatory etc world, we have lost individuality. Everybody is a group. I miss the raconteurs of my youth, the storytellers the colourfull individuals the Harlequins that could joke truth to power. We now have angry every-bodies, that all they can do is talk about the injustices […]

And she said

Being in a relationship as a divorced person has a whole range of complications. There are children. Parental styles. Routines. Ex husbands and ex wives. Work. Religion and availability. How does one get a new parner into your life. How do you tell children they are not the centre of ur universe anymore. All of […]

Sibling society

A few years ago I read Sibling Society, a book by Robert Bly, poet and story teller from America.  The main theme of the book was how to reclaim the forgotten art of adulthood, if we can call it an art or a necessesary life cycle. He refers to the people caught up in a […]

And I was Dreaming

I am not a big believer in dream analysis as I find most of it to be speculative and interpretive of our current experiential situation. That’s probably where I have been wrong because that is exactly what it is all about.  That it is a guide for what’s happening in our un/sub conscience is a given. […]

And we care.

  “to have faith is precisely to lose one’s mind so as to win God.” -Søren Kierkegaard   With the dissolvent of our social structures and the rise of the individual as a focus for development, it is noticeable that we have become more entitled and less compassionate. In the past few weeks, I have had discussions […]

Pain

Maybe both of us has been harmed too much or just enough not to see the beauty of love we recognise the blood on our hands from the love we lost and fought for and still we lost so we can recognise somewhere sometime there was love but we forgot what we fought for and […]